Rebecca
Friends may remember me making an incomprehensible announcement after Meeting at the end of September. For anyone who might still be wondering what the heck it was all about, here is an explanation.
On 3 October 2020, I made my Life Profession in the Third Order of the Society of St. Francis. This is a ‘dispersed order’ within the Church of England, which contains a mixture of genders, ages, married and single people, ordained and lay people. (The First and Second Orders are for full-time brothers and sisters in communities; people might know the Sisters at Freeland, who are a Second Order house.) A friend described the Third Order as the ‘Free-Range Franciscans’, a description I like very much and which Quakers would find less objectionable than the analogy I had previously used, which was the Territorials.
You might ask at this point ‘Yes, OK, but what do you actually do?’ The answer to this is that that it depends to a large extent on the individual Tertiary and their circumstances. We all make an individual Rule of Life which we review annually and adjust if necessary. The Rule has sections such as Retreats, Personal Prayer and Study, and everyone works out what they will commit to under each heading. We aim to lead lives characterised by humility, love, and joy, which are qualities that prompt us to live simply, loving all and attempting to share Christ’s love. Quakers will probably find these aims familiar as there is plenty of common ground between the Franciscan Principles and the Quaker Testimonies.
Tertiaries are organised into small groups, and in normal times, everyone in an area meets up two or three times a year for a day of worship, talks, and general mingling. This is a joyful occasion and I am looking forward to a time when such events are allowed again. Small groups meet monthly for prayer and discussion in each other’s homes.
Life Profession is when a Novice becomes a fully-fledged Tertiary, after two to three years of preparation. It is a dedication of one’s life to trying to follow Jesus’s teachings as exemplified by St. Francis, though we don’t necessarily subject ourselves to the same level of self-denial. (At the end of his life, Francis apologised to his body, which he called ‘Brother Ass’, for some of his more severe practices.)
There is no requirement to call a Tertiary ‘Sister’ or ‘Brother’. Please keep calling me Rebecca, as you usually would. I do have a friend who calls me ‘Sister Rebecca’ to wind me up; the first time he did this, I was quite taken aback!
If anyone wants to know any more about the Third Order, do feel free to speak to me about it – I am not an expert yet, but I know some people who are. My email is: bexadella@googlemail.com
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Forty-Three Newsletter • Number 502 • February 2021
Oxford Friends Meeting
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