{"id":4162,"date":"2023-01-28T18:50:15","date_gmt":"2023-01-28T18:50:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/?page_id=4162"},"modified":"2023-01-29T18:28:29","modified_gmt":"2023-01-29T18:28:29","slug":"forgiven-for-my-grandson-in-prison-on-his-19th-birthday","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/february-2023\/forgiven-for-my-grandson-in-prison-on-his-19th-birthday\/","title":{"rendered":"Forgiven for my grandson in prison on his 19th birthday"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p2\" style=\"text-align: right;\"><b>Carol Lange <\/b><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_4163\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4163\" style=\"width: 175px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Carole-Lange.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-4163\" src=\"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Carole-Lange-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"175\" height=\"234\" srcset=\"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Carole-Lange-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Carole-Lange-767x1024.jpg 767w, https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Carole-Lange-768x1025.jpg 768w, https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Carole-Lange.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 175px) 100vw, 175px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-4163\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo by Carol Lange taken for her grandson<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"p3\">I forgave all your trespasses long ago,<br \/>\nlong, long ago, when first I realized<br \/>\nthe depths of your damage,<br \/>\nyour soul in turmoil, reaching,<br \/>\ngrasping for recognition,<br \/>\nyour need to be loved<br \/>\nstronger than fear of drowning<br \/>\namid the weeds floating<br \/>\non the surface of your life.<br \/>\nBut now<br \/>\nyour reach exceeds your grasp.<br \/>\nThe cold reality of steel<br \/>\nencases you<br \/>\nin a world you never wanted,<br \/>\nfor you squandered<br \/>\nyour innate power and empathy<br \/>\non wounding the vulnerable<br \/>\nfor gain.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">And all I can do is forgive.<\/p>\n<hr>\n<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: left;\" width=\"312\"><a class=\"fasc-button fasc-size-medium fasc-type-glossy fasc-rounded-medium fasc-ico-before dashicons-arrow-left-alt fasc-style-bold\" style=\"background-color: #0315a3; color: #ffffff;\" href=\"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/february-2023\/tea-cake-and-play\/\">Previous Article<\/a><\/td>\n<td style=\"text-align: right;\" width=\"312\"><a class=\"fasc-button fasc-size-medium fasc-type-glossy fasc-rounded-medium fasc-ico-before dashicons-arrow-right-alt fasc-style-bold\" style=\"background-color: #0315a3; color: #ffffff;\" href=\"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/february-2023\/all-age-creative-group\/\">Next Article<\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a class=\"fasc-button fasc-size-medium fasc-type-glossy fasc-rounded-medium fasc-ico-before dashicons-arrow-up-alt fasc-style-bold\" style=\"background-color: #0315a3; color: #ffffff;\" href=\"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/february-2023\/\">Back to February 2023 Newsletter Main Page<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em>Forty-Three<\/em> Newsletter \u2022 Number 526 \u2022 February 2023<br \/>\n<\/strong>Oxford Friends Meeting<br \/>\n43 St Giles, Oxford OX1 3LW<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"mailto:newsletter@oxfordquakers.org\">newsletter@oxfordquakers.org<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Copyright 2023, Oxford Quakers<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Carol Lange I forgave all your trespasses long ago, long, long ago, when first I realized the depths of your damage, your soul in turmoil, reaching, grasping for recognition, your need to be loved stronger than fear of drowning amid the weeds floating on the surface of your life. But now your reach exceeds your &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/february-2023\/forgiven-for-my-grandson-in-prison-on-his-19th-birthday\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Forgiven for my grandson in prison on his 19th birthday<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":50,"featured_media":0,"parent":4154,"menu_order":2,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4162","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/4162","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/50"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4162"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/4162\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4215,"href":"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/4162\/revisions\/4215"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/4154"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4162"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4162"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oxfordquaker.com\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4162"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}